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Charismatic Counselor

peishi, as the "Charismatic Counselor", people are often impressed by your charisma, warm, empathetic nature, and understanding. You show casual poise in social situations and are perceived as patient and a good listener. There is an essence about you that puts others at ease, allowing them to open up to you and even look to you for guidance. At the same time, you're a natural born communicator and an adept social navigator. Where often others will sit by, you will engage new people or invite others in to make them feel at home. You especially thrive in personal, low-pressure situations where you can feel truly connected to and acknowledged by those around you. You are neighborly, open-minded and able to see the 'best' in others. Once you form a bond with another person, you have no problem talking about personal subjects and extending trust, proving yourself to be a solid friend to many. At work, you are most content when utilizing your interpersonal skills, creativity, and optimism in a supportive context. Your enthusiasm can motivate others, bringing life to a project. Using your positive people skills, you can bring unity to groups and between individuals. You may find yourself in the role of counselor or peacemaker. You genuinely care for others and will go out of your way for them, especially friends. Most likely impulsive, you live in the moment and search out new experiences. Probably seen as trustworthy and relationship-oriented, people are drawn to your energetic optimism and enthusiasm. Being both persuasive and talkative, others likely want to hear what you have to say. You can be a very positive and encouraging force in others' lives, with the ability to focus on the bright side rather than the obstacles in the way. Food for Thought -You desire approval from others and can be swayed by their opinions at times. You may find that you will adapt yourself to be accepted. -You are a very trusting person, wanting to see the good in others and for them to see the same in you. As a result, you may extend yourself generously, sometimes opening yourself up to be taken advantage of. -Because of your desire to be around people, you'll probably spend your time on relationships as opposed to tasks. Challenges may arise for you in time-management and with detailed tasks that involve a long commitment of time or repetitive activity. -You likely show love through physical affection, time spent, verbalization, and kind acts. You probably want to be shown love in the same way. You may feel frustrated or rejected around less emotionally motivated and expressive personalities, as they may show and receive love through tasks and concrete gestures. -Your communication style in general, especially in times of pressure or conflict, can be overly tolerant. Your need to maintain positive relationships, may lead you to undervalue your own needs, time, and personal goals. This can create additional stress in your life. -You likely fear and avoid conflict, which may prevent you from setting appropriate boundaries and expressing your own needs and wants. If you don't express your own needs, you may feel resentment. At times, you may need to make a concerted effort to stand your ground. Take the test here: http://www.personalitystyle.com/